Transitions School combines academics and therapy for troubled boys

When Liz Matola sees staff and students in the Transitions Therapeutic School laughing, she knows something deeper is going on.

“I see strong relationships; I see the staff enjoying their craft, and the kids feeling safe and happy and comfortable,” said Liz, who heads the school as its clinical coordinator.

Those things are not always easily achieved in such a school setting. Transitions, which is housed in St. Aemilian-Lakeside and just started its new school year, provides academic and therapeutic services to boys from 6 to 17 years. Most have experienced trauma, and each child must be evaluated according to his individual needs: academic, therapeutic, relational, developmental and emotional.

Ninety percent of the boys in this program are also in St. Aemilian-Lakeside’s residential program, where they reside on-site because of their serious emotional and behavioral challenges, and 10 percent are day students, referred because their emotional and behavioral needs cannot be met in a regular school. Because each is so different, what Liz calls a “recipe card” is provided for each boy.

“We may have 12 kids in a class on different academic levels, with different therapeutic needs, and different trauma histories,” she said. Although the school’s three classrooms do tend to break down by age, the boys are grouped based on therapeutic, developmental and emotional as well as academic needs. “We try to place them where they will be most successful.”

With a teacher and two support staff in each classroom, the focus is on each child’s individual strengths and mastering skills, so that he can go on to achieve more complex goals. Music, movement, rhythmic and repetitive activities that address a child’s past traumatic experiences by calming brain activity are part of the therapy conducted in classrooms to help the boys with self-regulation.

Boys are evaluated and reinforced every hour on their behavior, participation and treatment goals. As an incentive, they can earn rewards from candy or juice to T-shirts, crafts or games.

Because of the boys’ behavior issues, classes can become disruptive. But the staff avoid verbal sparring and instead participate in what Liz calls echoing: singing a song or clapping hands to re-engage the kids. Lesson plans can involve games and field trips, such as a visit to a museum.

All students receive therapy services to support their needs. The therapist who serves day students acts as a liaison with the home school district, the family and the organization purchasing the services. In addition to seeing the child a minimum of once a week individually, the therapist sits in on classrooms and works hands-on with the boys and helps facilitate transitioning them back to their home schools. Residential boys remain in Transitions school as long as they require residential services, and they also earn credits that transfer to outside schools after they leave.

Liz is celebrating one year as the head of the school, the first licensed clinical social worker in this job. She says the school is unlike a lot of other programs, with its combined academic and therapeutic focus and implementing trauma informed care so heavily. For more information on trauma informed care, click here. http://www.st-al.org/trauma-informed-care/ She said Transitions’ work to translate what is done there into an outside school setting to help ensure success after the boy leaves sets it apart.

In the past year she has seen a “more stable, healthy and safe therapeutic and academic environment. Our team is achieving the ability to teach students who weren’t regulated enough (emotionally and behaviorally) to feel safe and comfortable learning.”

And the staff remain future-focused, she said, always talking about ideas and how they can use them to expand their abilities. “Even when they are making progress, they always see that there is room to take things to the next level.”

Academic achievement, measured by testing upon a boy’s discharge, is way up and parents are reporting changes in their sons they never have seen before, Liz said. All of this makes her really proud. One particular success story has really moved her.

A boy in middle school has been in Transitions longer than the typical stay, now into his second school year. Liz said she used to think the sooner a boy moved on the better.

“This boy has made more progress than I ever thought he would make,” she said. Because of the individualized work with him, in therapy and in the classroom, plus relationships staff built with the boy, a kid who used to have extremely aggressive behavior, problems interacting with women, and social difficulties so severe that he hated being touched will now shake a hand, look someone in they eye, and interacts positively with her and other female staff.

“His grandmother says she thanks us every day, because she knows how challenging he can be. And that’s ultimately what this is all about.”

Education is key to success for young woman in ILS

After spending 15 years in the foster care system, in more than 20 foster homes, Ashley Stokes is determined to get an education and get ahead.

This 21-year-old’s dream is to some day run a group home for teenage girls, who she says too often are “voiceless.” Ashley came close to living on the streets more than once, and she understands their feelings and their needs.

So she is studying two tracks at Milwaukee Area Technical School, management and human services. She also is licensed as a certified nursing assistant and hopes to get into phlebotomy work to earn money in the short term while she works toward her dream job.

St. Aemilian-Lakeside, which is serving her through its Independent Living Services (ILS) program is keeping her on track, helping her stay focused and teaching her the life skills, such as budgeting – which she admits she needs help with — to succeed. ILS serves young people who have aged out of foster care at 18 and because of their often unstable backgrounds need help to transition successfully to adulthood.

Through ILS, Ashley was provided with an apartment for 18 months, furniture, food assistance, start-up household goods and case management.

“Whatever you need, they’re always there for you,” Ashley said. She has transitioned from an 18-month program to one that provides long-term case management and guidance, and she has received help with a security deposit and rent so she could find her own place to live.

The bedrock, however, is education. Ashley knows it’s the key to her future.

“I want to do it (get more education), because I want to go farther, to expand my career. And I want more things out of life. I like working with youth, and because of what I’ve been through, I want to give back to those who can’t speak for themselves.”

In addition to helping her achieve her goals, Ashley notes that furthering her education helps her learn things she would not know because of her fragmented personal background. And it puts her in contact with people who are different from her, so she can learn more from other people’s knowledge and experiences.

Staying in school is sometimes hard, Ashley admits, and sometimes she gets stressed. But she walks along the lake to de-stress and she talks to her past and current ILS counselors.

“Christine (Woods, her former case manager) was always pushing me to do more; she’s like a mother to me,” Ashley said. “Loretta (Williams, her current youth counselor) has a lot of insight. She helps me with my occasional attitude problem – well, I don’t really have an attitude problem, but I’m a strong- minded person – and she gives me someone to talk to who won’t judge me.”

Is she going to make it? To realize her dream?

“Yes I am!” Ashley says firmly. “For sure!” She won’t even allow her self to consider what life might be like if she didn’t stay in school and stay on course.

“She’s so persistent and determined, especially with school and what needs to be done,” Loretta said. “She will take the first steps she needs in her life rather than waiting for someone else.”

And what will life be like when she achieves her education and her dream? Ashley’s face lights up in a huge smile.

“Then life can be beautiful, it can be gorgeous!”

Former foster child says staying positive is key to success

A 19-year-old who was in about 15 different foster placements by the time he was 10, then a variety of group and residential homes might be expected to be down on life.

Not Alexander James. Despite some very trying times, this teen-ager never gives up.

“Even though other people didn’t believe I could do it, I’ve got to exceed expectations and overcome the odds,” he said.

Alex is upbeat and focused – to the point of being accused of being boring, he said with a laugh. Rather than go out, he likes to study, sell home-made brownies and chocolate-covered strawberries to make extra cash, and keep his eye on his goals.

He is not sure what he wants to be after he finishes Milwaukee Area Technical College, but he characterizes himself as an entrepreneur, someone who wants to be something big one day. And, because he “grew up in the system” and loves children, he hopes to make a difference for them somehow.

“In the foster system, sometimes you feel like an outcast, and I still feel like it sometimes,” he said. “The rules change from house to house, but it made me who I am today …. When you dwell on this stuff, you get negative. You gotta keep moving and stay positive.”

And that’s one thing this young man certainly is. A sign in his living room reads, “Believe there are no limits but the sky.” A Post-it adds: “Pray before you leave, and whether spiritual, intellectual, material or physical, come back with more than you left with.”

“Alex has great determination to overcome adversity, and I believe that society will have to brace itself for his positive contributions!” said Tony Penman, who worked with Alex in St. Aemilian-Lakeside’s Independent Living Services program. The program’s goal is to help youth like Alex successfully transfer to adulthood with a variety of life-skills, educational and vocational assistance.

Alex enjoys being in the program because, he said, it provides support and honors his independence. For now, Alex likes selling his home-made sweets at school, church and barber shops. “I have a knack for it, and the gift of gab.”

Will he make it big some day? “I have no other choice, I came too far, and I don’t see myself settling for less. Failure’s not an option for me.”

Reflecting back on his foster days, and showing wisdom well beyond his 19 years, he said, “Kids lose hope sometimes, but if you believe in yourself, no matter where you’re at, you can prosper … You can’t let another person define what you are. You need to find your dream and follow it and not be afraid to fail.

“If you’re afraid to fail, you’re afraid to succeed.”

Martial arts, rhythmic activities help residential kids

For the last several months, boys in St. Aemilian-Lakeside’s residential program have started their mornings twice weekly with a lot of kicking and yelling. But they also bow and say “thank you” in a foreign language.

It’s all part of a martial arts program led by a black belt with the goals of improving behavior as well as providing great exercise. For a 15-year-old resident, it’s working.

“I like it because I learn how it affects me,” he said. “It feels good physically, and it calms my mind.” He even began meditating after reading handouts the instructor  provided.

A 13-year-old said he likes the class because it teaches him self-discipline – to avoid fighting — and respect, for his instructor and himself.

These are just the kind of sentiments Marlon Patawaran, owner of Kicks N’ Sticks Dojo, teaches and what Mike O’Leary, division director of Residential Treatment, was aiming for when he instituted the program. Mike provided the boys with black uniforms, but they have to earn them by being respectful to Marlon and each other and exhibiting good behavior throughout the day.

“The ‘forms’ they learn are patterned, sequential, repetitive movements, and they really fit into what we know about trauma informed care,” Mike said.

The martial arts program is one of several interesting endeavors the residential program has begun offering over the last few years that are based on research from Doctors Bruce Perry and Bessel Van der Kolk, both premier experts in childhood trauma and interventions to mitigate it. Their research has shown that brain development is affected by trauma such as abuse and neglect and that patterned, rhythmic and repetitive activities can play a big role in soothing and calming traumatized children and can actually alter their brain structure as well as their behavior.

Other endeavors in the residential program that take a trauma-informed approach included art therapy with Express Yourself Milwaukee. Under the guidance of professional artists, the boys engaged in movement, dance, visual arts and percussion activities that they showcased in a public presentation in May.

A class has done yoga, a practice Van der Kolk especially endorses. His work focuses on how activities such as yoga calm the mind, allow a person to get in touch with his body and promote relaxation and behavior regulation.

Therapy dogs help two groups of boys with behavioral challenges from trauma they experienced earlier in life. They are part of a program put together by Laura Hey of Health Heelers that is aimed at calming the boys, increasing compassion and understanding of feelings, and expanding their ability to work as a team.

Because of the importance of brain-based research, an occupational therapist assesses all boys upon entry into the residential program, and OT sessions include bouncing balls, swinging hula hoops, running obstacle courses and relay races, playing tug-o-war and engaging in other team activities. Two youth counselors are dedicated to promoting rhythmic and repetitive activities, and a room is stocked with things to promote motor-sensory actions. The equipment includes pogo sticks, an exercise bike, a small trampoline, a plastic basketball setup and bouncy balls to hop on.

“These initiatives are paying off,” Mike said. “We’ve seen an overall more relaxed environment on the units, a clear reduction in aggressive acting out and fighting, and much less property damage.

“And the boys seem to be getting along better and learning how to live together peacefully.”

Arts project spotlights foster care, youth aging out at 18

If you ask Grace Meehan, student leader of Homestead High School’s Kids4Kids, why her group did a collaborative arts project with children who are in foster care or youth aging out of the system, she’ll tell you it’s because there are a lot more similarities than differences among young people.

“People might have a bad connotation about kids in foster care,” she said, “but they’re still young like us, and they have bright futures.”

Kids4Kids, which raises money for and tries to increase awareness about foster care, was involved this past school year in an undertaking called Project 3mpower. The project aimed to build awareness in the public and camaraderie and self-confidence in the young people involved by artistically telling the story of foster life.

Under the guidance of instructors at the North Shore Academy of the Arts in Grafton, the students from Mequon worked with children and young adults served by St. Aemilian-Lakeside and held a festive culminating show in May.

The young people created a variety of artworks from painting and pottery to song, dance, drama and poetry that were showcased May 15 at the Arts Mill Gallery & Boutique in Grafton.

The project’s aim was to change the way the public understands and responds to the needs of foster youth. The name 3mpower comes from the goal of empowering three populations: foster and non-foster kids and the public.

“This helps them to see it’s not a bad thing to be in foster care,” said Jeanetta Watson, who is part of a St. Aemilian-Lakeside Independent Living Services (ILS) program that helps youth leaving foster care successfully transition to adulthood. Jeanetta created a painting illustrating many of the emotions she experienced while in foster care.

“They seemed like a nice bunch of kids,” she said about the Homestead students. “They wanted to participate and they wanted to learn about my experiences in foster care and how I felt about it,” she said.

Some of her experiences were met with surprise, said Jeanetta, who was in nine foster homes from the time she was 3 until she was 16.  “But we talked about how you’ve got to not worry about the bad, think of the good, and go from there.”

Another young woman in an ILS program, Kaitlin Harris, said the questions posed to her were good because, “a lot of people don’t know what it’s like to be in foster care, so I pretty much told them everything: going house to house, being in shelters. And everybody’s experience in foster care is different.”

“It was a great opportunity, because some of the kids (in foster care) still don’t have resources, places to go,” said Jeanetta. “There’s a need to speak out.”

Grant Brogan, a Homestead freshman, said he got involved in the project because it was fun. “And it’s a way to reach out to a different community and to help others. And you’re making new friends.”

A 9-year-old boy named Julio, who is being assisted by St. Aemilian-Lakeside’s Family Preservation Services, said it was pretty cool working with Grant. “He looks like Justin Bieber!” he said with a laugh.

“No matter where you grow up, we all have common interests, and it’s good to find those common interests,” said Patrick Tucker, also a freshman at Homestead.

As Unique Wilson from the ILS program worked on writing a song, she said, “It’s about hope and faith, not giving up, always having hope for tomorrow being a better day.”  She worked with Angela Mack, a performing arts instructor, on creating the song.

“It takes a lot of vulnerability to write a song like this and it takes a lot of trust,” Angela said. “This is a song of encouragement to all people who feel like giving up.”